Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

every time a turn around i am face with a lie he told me during our marriage example he went to get a hair cut his friend cuts his hair he came right back in said his friend was in jail,so i said why don't you ask his brother why is he always going to jail.He said i don't no anything about a brother i don't know if he has one,he forgot that years ago it took him three days to get a hair cut he would stay a couple of hours came back home and say he didn't get a hair cut because his friend 's brother didn't come back with the clippers.he had 8 hours missing from work i asked him why ,he said if he is late from lunch his job waits until it adds up to 8 hours.he forgot that's what he told me said i was lying.i have many stories like that so how can i forget if something comes up then i realize that was a lie to but then he will blame me and say he didn't say it' my mother always say the past is the past but it makes me feel like i have been living a lie.

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

A lie from the past or the present should bother you a lot. People who lie about anything are usually hiding something and it is a bad way to conduct a marriage or relationship.

You must decide if you love him enough to overlook his lies or if you want more from your marriage.

Good Luck

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

That 8 hour add up late from lunch ordeal is bogus. Not only is it against the law, but that just sounds stupid as hell.

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

Love means to let go of past wrongs and that means not bringing them up... if you are in this situation then I'd advise you to work on your part of the relationship... in time, hopefully he'll mature and stop lying..... hopefully..

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

i didn't understand where any of that indicated he cheated

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

it should bother you because no one likes to be cheated on. try talking to someone.

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

Sounds like you don't trust him (with good reason). If he hasn't given you any proof that you CAN trust him then it's time to leave.

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

He sounds like an habitual liar to me. Dump his butt!

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

seems like he's full of it. he can get a haircut from Supercuts for $6. he doesn't need to wait for some guy. as far as the 8 hours missing, if he was THAT late getting back from work, he'd be fired. if he keeps putting the blame on you, then something's up. I'd get out of the relationship....

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

Once a liar always a liar. " He who has nothing to hide... Hides nothing."

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

I understand where you are coming from because he has hurt the trust in your relationship. The past may be the past but if he is still telling lies it indicates that he has not learned from his mistakes. I would be somewhat hesitant about his behavior to and be keeping my eye on him. If a man gets away with cheating and he has never had to face a consequence for that action he more than likely knows how to get away with it again! I understand that mother means well and wants you to be content in your marriage but she is not the one living with him. You know him more than anybody and if he has given you any indication that he has cheated or continues to do so you have to protect yourself here. Be carefull sweetie and take care.

Should a lie from the past bother you,if you felt he lied because he was cheating?

You have a lire on your hands, I think you might want to rethink your relationship with this person. This person isn't 100% into you.